How To Handle Cheating In Your Relationship
If you’ve ever been in a serious long-term relationship you might know what I mean when I say that you develop a sixth sense when it comes to your partner. You start “feeling” things about them that you can’t explain to others but you just “know.” You find yourself in tune with their intentions, their actions, their coping mechanisms.
Our bodies give off hidden signals on a daily basis that come out as subtle energy vibrations. These energy vibrations are what make us who we are and they show themselves in different ways in our lives. Amazing things happen when you make an effort and take the time to tune into your partner’s energy.
One of the best things about being attuned to your partner is that you’re body will tell you if something is off. Cheating is a common relationship killer and the sooner you know about it the better. Being in tune with your partner allows you to expose a betrayal like this.
While this isn’t the case with everyone, people usually stray from their partners for specific reasons. This doesn’t make it okay or acceptable but it’s a fact.
Constantly fighting or not treating each other with respect is major cause. If one of you is always being shut down, doesn’t feel valued, isn’t appreciated, etc. you’re more likely to cheat.
Being able to spot the signs of infidelity early on is critical in any relationship. If you detect signs of trouble when they first begin, you have a better chance of keeping them from becoming full-blown problems.
Once a small issue becomes a problem, the likelihood of a betrayal increases.
One of the best things you can do at the start of a new relationship is research the love compatibility between you. Check out your Chinese and astrological Zodiac signs to find out if you’re a good match. It can also tell you if you have a higher chance of relationship issues.
However, I wouldn’t base a relationship off of Zodiac signs and compatibility. These things can’t guarantee one way or another if you and your partner will have good chemistry. Not being a good match doesn’t mean your relationship can’t work. It could just mean that someone might be more likely to seek spiritual or physical connections elsewhere if there’s relationship trouble.
Having said that, where there’s a will there’s a way. If two people are meant to be, nothing will get in the way of a lasting relationship. You might just have to put in a little extra work here and there to make it work.
If you identify and tackle relationship problems early on, the chances of them turning into a cheating issue decrease. If you’re in a serious relationship and know that you want to be with this person forever, you need to know them better than anyone else.
Be an expert at knowing what they are want out of life. Get to know their dreams, their aspirations, their short- and long-term goals, their perfect vision of life. Familiarize yourself with how they live their life and carry themselves day-to-day. Ask them what they need and want from a partner. If you are there for them 100% they have no reason to seek these things from someone else.
Keep in mind that this is only if you truly love this person and have sincere feelings for them. You shouldn’t give so much of yourself to another person if you’re not in it for the long run.
Some people might say it isn’t your “job” to make sure your partner doesn’t stray and they’re right. You don’t have to do it if you don’t want to. I don’t think of it as a “duty” or “job”, I think of it as keeping the relationship happy.
Be Mindful Of Changes In The Relationship
Being in tune with your partner and knowing them as intimately as possible also allows you to detect any subconscious psychic differences that may come up. That might sound crazy at first but trust me on this one.
When you’re familiar with your partner on a deep emotional level, you share the same astral space and energy. This comes with time, experience, and love.
When your relationship is in this state, you’re able to detect any imbalances or disagreements, even if they’re small and insignificant.
These seemingly harmless differences have the potential to turn into full blown infidelity if left unchecked.
Make a conscious effort to be mentally attuned to your partner’s energies. If you do notice changes in their personality or behavior, voice your concerns to them in a healthy and respectful manner.
It’s also important for you to pay attention to how they react to YOUR personal energies. Are they responsive to your romantic affections or do they brush you off?
Do they anticipate what you need from them or have they mentally checked out? If they were once responsive but are now indifferent, this could be a sign that their body or mind is on someone else.
Studying their Chinese and western astrology signs and star charts can teach you a lot about their personality. It can also teach you how they deal with emotions and problems. For example, some star signs work through their guilty conscious by overcompensating with random gifts or flowers.
I’m not by any means saying that if your partner comes home with a bouquet of flowers one day that they’re cheating on you, not at all! But you will know when this type of behavior strikes you as odd that something is wrong.
Other star signs deal with their guilt with fits of anger. They project the guilt they feel inside onto you and might become aggressive or hostile with you. This could also be a subconscious way for them to distance themselves from you if they feel like you’re the source of the guilt that’s weighing on them. This of course isn’t true.
It isn’t your fault they decided to turn to someone else when problems emerged in your relationship. You know it and they know it but a lot of times it’s easier for people to blame their shameful behavior on others.
If you suspect that your partner is cheating on or lying to you but aren’t positive, talk to an online psychic. A few questions combined with their extra sensory perception and intuition can result in more information than you ever thought possible. Psychics are pros at deciphering people’s intentions and personal nature. Check out my reviews page for the best online psychic networks.
If you suspect your partner is cheating on you, or you know for a fact, you need to talk to them about it. Although not an easy thing to do, it’s necessary.
While some people are able to ignore the cheating and continue with the relationship, doing so isn’t healthy.
This is harmful to not only the person living with it but the cheater as well. It’s an unneeded punishment for the both of you.
Ignoring the problem for years might sound nice but by doing so you’re severely damaging your psyche. You might start to feel unworthy, unlovable, or like you deserve to be cheated on.
Living with this betrayal will affect every aspect of your life.
Not to mention the toll it will take on your personal relationships with loved ones. You will be on edge 24/7 and lose your ability to love and trust with all of your heart. It also affects the cheater because they are living with the guilt of knowing that what they’re doing to you is wrong. They know they are betraying you and they’re torn between their feelings for you and the person they’re seeing.
You might think that them staying with you despite meeting someone else is a good thing but that’s not necessarily true. They might have lost feelings for you somewhere down the line but remain in the relationship because it’s easier to do so. Upending their entire life, home, friendships and material goods might be too much for them.
They don’t have strong enough feelings for the person they are seeing on the side to warrant a whole overhaul of their life. This is especially true if kids are involved. They might still be a good parent who doesn’t want to dismantle their child’s life overnight.
As hard as it might be, it’s important that you don’t let this drag on but confront it head on instead. Try to remain as calm and civil as possible when approaching the subject. Nothing good can come of you blowing your top and coming at them ready to attack. Give yourself some time to sit with this knowledge and let it sink in.
Once you’ve acknowledged it, make a conscious effort to not be okay with it but to accept it. It’s happening whether you accept it or not so you might as well face it. Once you’ve had time to stomach it and are in a calmer state you need to bring it out into the open. This is going to be the only way to deal with the psychic rift between the two of you that has been deepened by the problem.
Sometimes the rift is too deep and has caused too much damage to stay together. This is understandable and you should never force yourself to stay even if they vow to remain faithful to you in the future. They can’t take back what they did and you shouldn’t subject yourself to a life you no longer want.
However, there are times when the rift is still shallow and hasn’t had a chance to deepen yet. Maybe you can even see how it happened and understand why they did what they did. You may realize that you played a part in it and aren’t completely blameless. Perhaps your partner convinces you that it was purely physical and didn’t mean anything emotional and you can accept that.
This is a hard decision to make and should not be taken lightly. Know yourself and know whether this is truly something you can move past. If you can’t move past it, it will constantly haunt your relationship. Again, speaking to a psychic about a decision this big is extremely helpful and I highly recommend it.
If you do decide to move forward and continue with the relationship, forgiveness is going to be key.
If you don’t truly and honestly forgive your partner you could become bitter, resentful, and distrustful.
Living with this is worse than the heartache of upending your life and starting over without them.
You can’t be the best parent to your children if you are not okay yourself.
On the flip side, forgiving and moving forward may seem impossible but nothing is impossible where there is love. If you truly want to stay with your partner and know in your heart that you CAN forgive and continue together then go for it.
It might sound crazy to some but couples who do work through infidelity and forgive can actually come out stronger in the end. They can form a deeper psychic bond that can carry them through a lifetime together. If you can get past something like this and know that you can fully trust your partner, there isn’t anything you can’t get work through.
If your partner truly loves you and is genuinely remorseful, they will cherish what they have with you more than ever. They will know that you are taking a huge chance on them and will do anything to keep you happy. They will regret the hurt they caused you and treasure their second chance.
Again, all of this is only possible if you truly forgive your partner and can honestly let it all stay in the past. Bringing it up or throwing it in their face when you’re trying to move forward is not going to end well.
Forgiving might be a big step but it’s not impossible if a relationship is meant to be. It will probably require a lot of work from you and your partner but it can be worth it.
It’s understandable if you can’t forgive and forget a betrayal like this. Don’t feel bad if you decide to end the relationship.
Even if you were able to move past the cheating, a lot of times it exposes deeper issues. You may discover that the reasons your partner cheated are impossible to fix. The cheating could just be the outcome of a much larger problem.
Most of the time things are never the same after cheating has occurred. If the psychic bond between the two of you is not strong enough or if you’re just not compatible in the long run, separation might be your best bet.
Breakups can go one of two ways- mutual and respectful or one-sided and messy. Obviously a good, clean breakup is ideal but that’s hard to do when feelings have been hurt this bad.
It’s okay to feel angry and never want to speak to them ever again. You don’t have to try and stay on good terms with them, especially if you don’t have anything that ties you together.
If you do decide to break up, it’s important that you start bringing spiritual balance back to your life as soon as possible. You’ll need to heal the psychic wounds that the infidelity and lying have caused you.
This is the only way for you to move forward and live your best life. Burying and suppressing these feelings isn’t fair to you because they will keep trying to come back up. Left unresolved, these wounds can fester and ruin any future relationships you might have.
After experiencing something as traumatic as cheating, I don’t recommend immediately jumping back into a relationship. You need to give yourself time to work through these difficult feelings. If you don’t, they’ll keep future relationships from reaching their full potential and can be huge roadblock for you.
Spiritual introspection, retrospection, meditation, journaling, and speaking with a trustworthy psychic are all great ways to heal these wounds. It might not be easy but it is so worth it. You deserve love and happiness.