You’re in a relationship, and things are going great. Your heart skips a beat every time you see them, and you can’t stop thinking about them.
They say all the right things, do all the right things, and make you feel all the right feelings. It really seems like the universe has finally sent you “the one.”
But…you just don’t know for sure. You keep questioning your relationship and wondering if it’s meant to be.
Maybe you’ve had your heart broken in the past, and you’re finding it hard to trust yourself or your partner.
You put all your love and emotions into the wrong person before and were hurt when it didn’t work out. You felt the same way about that person then that you’re feeling now, and you don’t know what to think.
The good news is that this feeling is entirely normal! It’s actually a good thing because it makes you think long and hard about the relationship instead of jumping into things.
Just because someone makes you laugh when you’re around them doesn’t mean they’re the one. Connecting with people on a superficial level is easy; connecting with their minds and spirit is the hard part.
Anyone can check the box for ‘attractive,’ ‘funny,’ and ‘responsible,’ but checking the box for ‘patient,’ ‘trusting,’ ‘respectful,’ and ‘understanding’ is more important.
Don’t waste precious time not knowing whether you should put all your feelings into this person.
Doubt and uncertainty can ruin a good thing and isn’t necessary. Take some time to find out if your partner is the one for you.
One way to do this is by learning the top 10 signs that signal you will have a successful relationship:
You Share The Same Values And Beliefs
Being with someone whose beliefs are the opposite of yours for the rest of your life can be challenging.
Sharing personal values, morals, and ethics is a good sign that you can have a happy future together. The same opinions on religion, children, family, and health are also important.
If you try to be the healthiest version of yourself, do you think you can be with someone who doesn’t care about their health?
Being with someone who doesn’t watch what they eat or try to stay active can cause issues for you down the line.
They may be the most attractive person you’ve ever met, but it’s going to be a problem when you realize they’re a huge liar.
If you value respect and honesty, being with someone who cheats and steals from others will cause ethical issues for you.
You’re On The Same Page When It Comes To Your Future
This one is much like sharing values and beliefs but a little different. You must be on the same page about how you picture your future together.
For example, you want a quiet life in the country where you can be a stay-at-home mom for the children you wish to have.
However, your partner wants you both to have high-paying careers while living in a busy city with no kids. That’s a recipe for disaster, and you’re bound to face some difficulties.
If they dream of traveling the world and never staying in one place for too long and you dream of establishing roots in the city where you grew up, this is a sign that they’re not the one for you.
At some point, it won’t matter how trustworthy they are if you don’t want the same things in life. Have an open and honest discussion to see if you’re on the same page about the future.
They Make You Their Priority
Does your partner make you feel safe, loved, and cared for, no matter how busy they are? Are they flexible when it comes to meeting your needs?
If they’re the type who’s willing to leave work early to go with you to an important event, this is a great sign.
If their first question is, “how can I help?” or “what can I do to make it better?” when you reach out to them with a problem, they’re that much closer to being the right one for you.
Someone who goes the extra mile to be there for you and care for you during your worst is someone you know you can have a happy future with.
You should rethink the relationship if they constantly seem too busy for you. Being absent when you need them the most or making you feel too needy and demanding is a bad sign.
They Give You Time And Space
A healthy relationship is one where you never lose your sense of self. One where you can be yourself without completely changing your life to make them happy.
You should never sacrifice your life to complete someone else’s. You’ll know your partner is the right one for you if they give you freedom without restrictions.
Your partner should always respect the time you need for yourself, your friends, and your family. You should never feel bad for asking for some space or for wanting to spend quality time with others.
They shouldn’t try to keep you away from people you knew before they came into the picture.
The right one for you would never ask you to quit your hobbies or interests to spend that time with them, and they would encourage you to keep doing the activities that make you, YOU.
Your perfect partner will respect your private time and welcome you with open arms when you return to them.
You Know You Can Trust Them
Trust is EVERYTHING in a relationship. If you trust each other, you’re on the right path toward being soulmates.
You have to trust that your partner won’t leave you for someone “hotter,” “younger,” “wealthier,” etc. They also have to trust you not to do that.
The right partner won’t call to “check up on you” when you’re spending time with others. They won’t ask you a million questions when you return from hanging out with others to “test” you or to try to catch you in a lie.
If you can’t believe what comes out of each other’s mouths, then it’s time for a serious discussion.
Trust and jealousy issues don’t usually disappear on their own. On the contrary, they tend to get worse if left unattended.
Believe me, a distrusting and jealous partner is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.
The person you spend the rest of your life with should be someone you know you can trust, even in the most uncomfortable situations.
You have to know that they’ll make good decisions even in your absence and that they know you’ll do the same.
They Believe In Personal Growth
Life is about moving forward and living our best lives in our given time. The right partner will want to be the best version of themselves and want the same for you.
They will believe in personal growth and support whatever actions you have to take to get there.
Making good decisions, treating people how they deserve to be treated, and always trying to improve their emotional health are all signs of growth.
The right one will be humble enough to ask for your help when they need it. They know that two heads are better than one and that sometimes to grow spiritually, they need outside help.
It’s essential that your partner can say they’re sorry when they’ve wronged you, learns from their mistakes, and forgives you when you ask for forgiveness.
Holding grudges and constantly reminding you of past mistakes is not the way to spiritual growth.
Unfortunately, these things take you backward and lead to fights and arguments.
They Are Honest And Upfront With You
You know how difficult it is if you’ve dated a liar. Honesty is right up there with trust when it comes to relationships.
You need to know that the things you and your partner tell each other are, without a doubt, true. You have a rocky road ahead if you don’t know what’s real and what’s a lie.
You’ll constantly be doubting your partner, you won’t trust them, and you won’t be able to rely on them for anything.
The right partner for you needs to be able to have open and honest conversations, even about emotional and uncomfortable things.
Relationships aren’t always sunshine and rainbows; they can be downright painful sometimes. No two people are exactly alike, and there will be times when you clash and disagree.
You need to know that you can be honest with your partner about what’s bothering you and that they will give you a solid answer.
It’s a big deal to decide to share your life with someone and build a future with them. Having an honest partner you can rely on is crucial.
They Are Proud To Call You Their Partner
The right one for you will be proud of you and all your accomplishments. They won’t be embarrassed by you or try to hide you from the people in their lives.
They would never lie about you to their friends and family or make you lie about yourself when talking to them.
The right one will take you as you are and love you just like that. Anyone who makes you feel ashamed of how much money you make, your education level, where you live, etc., isn’t someone you should share your life with.
The perfect person for you would never talk you out of a higher-paying job where you’ll be making more than them.
They won’t keep you from advancing your life to protect their pride and won’t see things as a competition between you. Your life partner will be proud of you even when you’re more successful than them.
They should celebrate your accomplishments as if they were their own because a true partnership is two people who feel as one.
A partner who thinks they have to do better than you or be in a better position than you is not someone you should plan a future with.
They Bring Out The Best In You
Your soulmate is someone you feel alive and confident with when you’re with them.
They will make you feel like part of a team and that the world is yours for the taking—someone who makes you feel like you can conquer anything together.
A good relationship should make you want to be the best person you can be and make you hopeful for the future. You should feel supported and encouraged to accomplish your dreams.
They should never make you feel bad for wanting better things for yourself and try to hold you back. They should love that you take time out to volunteer instead of making you feel guilty you’re not with them.
The right one will make you feel like you can do anything you want because they encourage and believe in you. They will push you to be brave, try new things, and conquer your fears.
When you’re with the person you’re meant to be with, you’ll wake up looking forward to each day. You won’t wake up with fear or dread, or feel worse when you’re with them than when you’re by yourself.
Your partner should make you hopeful for a fun and exciting future together.
You Can Honestly Say They’re Your Best Friend
Last but not least, you’ll know you’re with the right one when you can confidently say they’re your best friend and when you can share all your thoughts and feelings with them without negative consequences.
Knowing each other’s secrets and the worst things about each other is a good sign for a healthy relationship.
What separates best friends from regular friends is knowing that this person has your best interests in mind.
It’s knowing they love you simply for being you and not for what you can do for them. You can count on them for whatever you need, and vice versa.
It’s a feeling in your heart that no matter how bad things get, your partner will be by your side and do anything in their power to help you.
Be honest, is your partner the first person you call when you receive important news? Are they constantly on your mind, from when you wake up to when you lie down?
Do you miss them when you’re not with them? Were you friends before you started dating? These are all excellent foundations for a happy life together.
What If Things Aren’t Looking Too Good?
If you’ve thought long and hard about the ten signs above and concluded they’re not the one for you, don’t panic.
There’s no 100% surefire way of knowing your partner is perfect for you. True love can conquer anything; if things are meant to be, they will work themselves out.
Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about the areas where you need them to step up for the relationship.
If this doesn’t seem doable or you know they won’t change, you may have to decide to break up.
Breaking up may be painful, but doing it while the relationship is still young is much easier than waiting years for the same result.
Life is too short and precious to spend with someone you know in your heart isn’t for you.
Don’t worry about being single; consider it an opportunity instead. Take time for yourself and learn to fall in love with YOU. Ask yourself if there’s anything you can change for the better.
Consider whether you can provide a partner with what you’re asking of them—often, we want to be treated like royalty without doing the same for others.
The ten steps above guide you to discover whether you’re the right one for your partner as well. If you notice some things you could be doing better of a job than you are, work on them!
Similarly, your partner might also ask themselves if you’re the one for them. Relationships take work but don’t rush the process or lose faith.
Contrary to popular belief, there isn’t just one right person for you- there are others, and the universe will put the perfect one for you in your life when you’re ready and when the time is right.
Get Help From An Expert In The Field
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