Below are 7 tips to attracting your soulmate but first, what exactly is a soulmate? Your soulmate, the person you are destined to be with, will be your life partner. They are someone who will be there with you through thick and thin.
They will be your best friend in life, your other half, your ray of light, your world.
The sparks may dim somewhat after several years, but they will never completely fizzle out. For some people, it is their ultimate goal in life and for others, it is a reality they are already living and enjoying.
Finding your soulmate isn’t a mission that you need to dedicate your time, energy or strength towards. It’s actually something that happens on its own, naturally, when two people are ready to become one.
It is less about “finding” them and more about attracting them and being prepared for them when you do meet. The better prepared you are, the sooner you can take part in a relationship that brings you indescribable joy.
Two people becoming one isn’t an easy task by any means. Soulmates have the same problems as others do in their relationships. It is a myth that once you are with your soulmate, you will never argue or disagree on anything.
Life with your soulmate isn’t going to be perfect every day and happiness is not automatically guaranteed. We are all very unique and have our own character flaws. This means that we are bound to clash with others and have occasional fights, it’s only natural.
The secret to a happy and everlasting relationship with your soulmate isn’t to be a perfect person with no shortcomings that cause you to fight. It is actually having the ability to withstand those trying times. You need to be able to grow and evolve together, be on each other’s team, and genuinely enjoy being in each other’s presence even when things aren’t perfect.
If you believe you have found your soulmate but feel like you are experiencing a lot problems and don’t know how to proceed, consulting a love psychic can help you get your relationship on track.
You need to be in a position where you are as prepared as possible to build a life with your soulmate. The seven steps below are things you can do to make sure you are ready to move forward when you meet them.
Drop Your Ex Like A Bad Habit
It is very common for people to hold on to their exes in one way or another after a relationship has ended. You may believe you are over them, but the reality is, if you’re still talking to them, you’re more than likely still hung up on them.
Sharing bits of your everyday life with them, wishing you could spend time with them again, looking back to when you were with them are all things that are going to keep you from being with your soulmate.
In order to receive the greatest rewards in life, you have to be confident and take bold steps in the right direction. You have to face your biggest fears head-on and overcome them with pride.
It is almost impossible to meet the person you are meant to spend the rest of your life with if you are still communicating with your exes.
Can it happen? Sure, anything is possible. Is it likely to happen? No. You have to learn from the past and move on. It doesn’t mean you have to hate your ex, you just need to untangle your life from theirs once and for all.
Of course, it is very difficult to cut off contact with your ex if you have children together. This step doesn’t apply to those that are co-parenting.
For those of you in that situation, I know you can’t stop talking to your completely. However, the rest still applies: Don’t share personal bits of your life, don’t wish you could spend time with them again, don’t look back to when you were together and think of what could have been.
Respect them as the parent to your child and leave it at that. Limit conversations to things that have to do with your children.
Get Rid Of Your Excess Baggage
Did your ex hurt you? Were you cheated on by them? Does it seem like all your exes were dead-set on tearing your heart to shreds? If so, you are not alone! Almost everyone has experienced relationship pain like this at least once in their life.
The important thing is that you move on from it. Go through counseling if you need help. Accept that it happened, learn from it, and move on from it. You can’t fully join your soulmate if you are still hung up on someone from your past.
You have to be ready to receive the amount of love that your soulmate will want to give you. It fills your heart and then some. You need all the room in there for them and only them, not others who hurt you in the past and are no longer in your life. You shouldn’t waste time on bitterness and resentment.
If you went through a nasty divorce and it still bothers you, it’s important that you don’t look at it as a bad thing because a divorce can actually be a good thing.
Don’t spend your valuable time and energy being angry at your ex for what was done to you, you will only be hurting yourself. Forgive them and move forward with your new lease on life.
“If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive”- Mother Theresa.
Keep A Positive Mindset
Do you feel like you’ve been having more bad days than good ones lately? That no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to be happy? Does it feel like everyones personal mission is to aggravate you?
If so, you are more than likely having a bad day, week, or even month. How receptive and responsive do you think you can be to your soulmate were you to meet them suddenly while you’re in this state?
It’s very easy to miss out on the signs around you if you aren’t feeling at peace in your life. Your soulmate could be right next to you at the grocery store but your inner angst can cause you to walk right past them.
Be prepared and be open to good things that come your way at all times! Always look for the positive in every single moment and day. Turn your bad days into good ones by changing your perspective.
Take Care Of Your Mind, Body And Spirit
It’s easy to get caught up in what you want from a life partner and not look enough at yourself. You want to be with someone who is good looking, healthy and full of life but you don’t think you have to be those things. You think that your soulmate will love you just the way you are, and that looks and health won’t matter to them.
While this has some truth to it- the right person will love you regardless of your flaws- it isn’t completely accurate. You cannot expect to just jump out of bed, head out into the world without putting any effort in to your appearance, and Mr. Right will be right there ready for you.
You have to take care of yourself first and foremost- both inside and out. When you take care of yourself first, your mood improves, you are happier, you are more attractive, and you radiate positive and confident vibes that others pick up on.
Incorporate a healthy diet, regular exercise, and meditation to your daily routine and you will be amazed at the changes you’ll see in yourself. Be the type of person you wish to be with!
Break Out Of Your Old Ways
After going through a divorce, I found myself alone, confused, and full of so many unanswered questions. I decided to have a psychic reading and with the spiritual guidance I was provided, I was able to turn my life around for the better
I remember asking a psychic why, after countless years searching, I still hadn’t found my soulmate. Was there something wrong with me? With the psychics help I learned that no, there wasn’t anything wrong with me, per se.
The problem was that I was stuck in my old ways. I hadn’t progressed anywhere for several years and I wasn’t where I needed to be mentally and emotionally.
You cannot expect to remain the same but have drastic changes happen to you. If everything around you has been more or less the same, it’s time for a big change.
Go surfing or bungee jumping. Join a painting class or a take piano lessons. Never stop trying new things and learning new skills.
Keep An Open Mind And Try New Things
A lot of times, the best things in life are hidden in plain sight. Just barely beyond our reach but right in front of us none the less. Sometimes, they are even hidden amongst the things we dislike the most. A topic or activity that you’ve never been very interested in or never understood and therefore avoided, could actually be the thing that leads you to your soulmate.
For example, say you were never interested in joining a running club because running sounds like torture to you. Your friend wants to start running for her health and asks you to join her. You decide to keep an open mind and at least try it so you agree.
While there, you realize you can run at your own speed and you actually love the way you feel post-run. After every group run, everyone meets up for a drink at the local bar. You happen to sit next to the most amazing person you have ever met and you can’t stop talking to each other.
Aside from learning how enjoyable running can be and getting healthier, by keeping an open mind, you also met your soulmate. I’m not suggesting that you go against your beliefs and drastically change your way of life. I’m just saying that you need to be open to other ideas and suggestions before automatically shutting them down.
Looking at things with an open mind and a curious perspective will teach you a lot about yourself.
Shine Like The Star You Are
It makes sense that if you want your soulmate to find you, you need to make yourself easier to see. Radiate from the inside out with love and positivity. Glow with confidence and pride.
Be respectful of all living things and never be afraid to spread happiness. Be compassionate and charitable when able. Don’t put yourself last, but don’t be afraid to put others in front of you during their time of need.
Do your best to live the life that you were meant to live. Your soulmate is going to help you learn, heal and complete you, but they alone can’t make you a happy person. They can’t make you feel motivated and make you better. You are going to have to work on these things on your own first.
This goes both ways, your soulmate cannot rely on you for all of their needs, but you should be able to help them learn, heal and complete them. You can only do that if you have learned to love yourself deeply and genuinely in your heart first.
Only once you love yourself, can you give true love to others, as well as receive love from them.
Your soulmate can be anyone and could appear at any time. They can be someone you used to know, lost contact with, and recently reunited with.
They can be someone you don’t know yet, someone you’ve just met, who you would’ve never imagined yourself being with in a million years.
Follow these steps to attract them and be prepared because when you meet them, you’ll know they’re the one for you and you won’t want to lose them by not being prepared.