So, you have a lot of things going on in your life and it’s feeling pretty complicated lately. You’re at a point in your life where you find yourself with more questions than answers. You’ve heard about how helpful psychic readings can be and you’re interested in getting one but you’re not sure where to start. Or maybe you’ve heard horror stories about people getting ripped off and this has scared you.
Honestly, having been swindled by a fraud myself several years ago, I can’t blame you. There are lots of dishonest and untrustworthy people out there passing themselves off as psychics, but don’t let them stop you from getting the clarity and answers you’re seeking.
For every fake and corrupt “psychic” out there, there are a lot more genuine psychics with true gifts. I had an awful first experience that almost made me swear off psychics forever but I learned that this happened to me because I was going into the experience blindly and with no guidance.
Once I researched deeper and came across honest, authentic psychic networks, I started benefitting from the information given to me during my readings and that’s what prompted me to start this website. I want to help others out there that, like me, are curious about psychics but need guidance and direction.
In this article, I’m sharing some tips for getting the best psychic reading possible that I’ve learned along the way.
To start with, you need to know that the relationship between you and the psychic is a unique and sacred one. That means that there needs to be mutual trust, understanding, and vulnerability between the two of you for everything to run smoothly, just like with any other type of relationship.
This is easier to do when you know the psychic has your best interest at heart and isn’t trying to work you over. Only once you’re sure that they only have good intentions towards you can you let your guard down and discuss your problems and concerns openly with them.
As I mentioned before, there are psychics out there that are only looking to empty your wallet, it’s an unfortunate fact.
The security and peace of mind I get from knowing that I’m sharing intimate details of myself and my life with authentic psychics that have been verified is absolutely priceless.
For these reasons, I’m very picky about who I trust and I only endorse a select number of psychic networks that have proven themselves to me and have gained my trust.
Similarly, there are people who get a reading with a psychic with the intention of “testing” them constantly by asking questions that they know are impossible to answer. They also sway the psychics answers into being wrong to see if the psychics gifts are real.
This is not a good attitude to go into a reading with for you or your psychic’s sake and doing so can taint the relationship.
If you and the psychic don’t feel like you can trust each other or there is a sense of spitefulness during the reading, it can create confusion and cause the information to be inaccurate. This would only result in time and money wasted for the both of you.
You should know that during a psychic reading, you and the psychic can subconsciously “mirror” each others’ energy.
This can happen if you’re nervous, skeptical, antsy, jittery, etc. and there’s a big chance that it will mess up your reading. It’s best if you go into the reading calm, relaxed, and with no negative assumptions.
You and your thoughts are essentially energy and therefore your thoughts, feelings, and emotions move and flow throughout, altering or creating the reality you’re already picturing in your head. This means that when getting a psychic reading, your expectation of the psychic will manifest itself during the session and is unfair for both of you.
For the best psychic reading possible, follow these five tips:
As mentioned earlier, don’t come into the session with a negative agenda in mind. Caring about things other than discovering the truth will only make the spiritual connection between you and your reader weak and it’ll be harder to get helpful information.
It’s fine to be skeptical, especially if you’ve never experienced how powerful and life-changing a psychic reading can be. What isn’t okay is letting this skepticism ruin your reading by taking it into the session with you.
If you’re honestly wanting to form a strong connection with your reader and get the best reading possible, leave your hesitancy and doubt at the door and go into the reading with an open mind. Don’t automatically assume the psychic will be wrong- simply ask your questions and listen to what they tell you during the reading.
You can form an opinion on your experience afterwards, once you’ve had to time to let everything you heard soak in and think on it, but at least you didn’t let your negativity affect the reading.
Suspend Judgement Avoid Judgement
Be mindful of any signs that show you’re being judgmental towards yourself or your reader when you enter a session.
Are you feeling doubtful or critical of the questions you want to ask? Do you beat yourself up for wanting answers to questions that might seem odd or silly? Do you find yourself automatically questioning or doubting the abilities of the psychic?
Watch for any signs indicating you’re being negative or overly critical. Don’t be ashamed of any questions you have, after all, this is solely between you and your advisor and you have the right to know whatever you’d like.
If you find yourself with these intrusive and judgmental thoughts, simply acknowledge their presence and then let them go. They have no place in your reading.
I find it helpful to think of my questions in advance and write them out on a notepad that I have with me during the reading. That way I’m prepared and I have a place to jot down the things my psychic is telling me and I can refer to them later if needed
Quiet Your Mind And Listen To Your Heart
Your mind can be very loud and dominating, but your heart is tender and holds its own wisdom. It’s important that you learn the difference between the feelings of your heart, and the thoughts of your mind. The mind’s main job is to ensure your survival in the world, from a purely primitive standpoint.
We’re past the caveman days of having to merely survive though, we’re advanced enough to where we can now take our feelings and emotions into consideration and nourish our souls. Because of how loud it can be, your mind has a tendency of getting in the way during psychic readings. It can keep you from uncovering truths that your heart needs you to know.
During a consultation, try to quiet your mind as much as possible and let your heart’s intuition have a chance to speak up. Listen to the emotions of your heart over the logic of your mind as best you can.
Hold Onto Your Power
For most people, the goal of a psychic reading is to uncover hidden truths. This is best accomplished when there is a mutual exchange of energy between the psychic and you.
There’s a delicate balance to this that can be thrown off if you give your psychic’s predictions complete and unquestioning blind trust.
While it is necessary to place trust in your reader, this trust needs to be balanced with your hearts wisdom and intuition. What I mean by this is that you want to make sure you feel like you got the answers you were looking for and the information resonates with you. If not, don’t be afraid to ask them to dig deeper into your questions or to ask further questions.
If something the psychic says doesn’t make sense to you, ask them to explain and clarify it for you. The psychic is there for you and wants the information they receive to make sense to you and to be useful for you.
As I’ve touched on before, it’s important that there be respect, sincerity and honesty between you and your reader because these are the foundations of ANY relationship. If you go into the session unready to give these things of yourself, your psychic is going to pick up on your apprehension and it will reflect in the reading.
This is due to the psychics’ unique ability to pick up on your energy and vibrations. It can muddle their intuition and put a negative spin on the whole thing.
Let their gifts work for you by showing them respect and consideration. On the flip side, if at any point you feel that they are crossing a line in the way they treat you, don’t hesitate to bring that up to them.
I found that this only happened to me with phony psychics that I’d find in my neighborhood or in the phone book though. I’ve never been disrespected by any of the psychics that work with the psychic networks on my reviews list!
At the end of the day, regardless of how talented the psychic is, their abilities are meant to complement and enhance your energy.
As long as you go into the psychic reading with the right attitude, you’ll receive valuable and insightful knowledge that resonates with your heart’s wisdom.
It might seem intimidating at first, but once you’ve spoken to a truly gifted psychic, you’ll wonder why it took you so long! It’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and it’s given me so much clarity and understanding in my life.