Conversation Starters And Questions To Ask A Psychic

Having a reading with a professional and authentic psychic is a magical and life changing experience. It doesn’t matter if it’s your first time or your hundredth time, it’s such a fascinating and intimate experience every single time.

If you’ve never had a psychic reading before but are interested in getting one, you may be wondering what you should talk about or what to ask them.

There’s really no right or wrong way to have a conversation with a psychic, the important thing is that it happens naturally, without feeling forced or strained.

It’s also very important that you have compassion for yourself during the process. It’s easy to judge yourself, think badly of yourself, put yourself down, etc. but you need to avoid doing so and just let yourself be free.

Below are some questions and conversation starters that might help ease you into the reading:

Love and Relationships QuestionsLove and relationships

Love is one of the most beautiful emotions in the world, but also one of the most complicated and difficult ones! It can give you indescribable joy, as well as crippling pain and confusion.

It’s not an easy road to navigate and the good thing is you don’t have to do it alone. Asking a psychic about your love life is a very popular and excellent idea.

  1. Begin by telling the psychic about your current romantic situation. Are you currently seeing someone you’re crazy about or are you hoping to meet someone soon? Are you in a relationship but aren’t happy in it? Talk to them about what you want and need in a relationship. Share your worries, fears, deal breakers, etc. with them. Discuss any past relationships that had a big impact on who you are today.
  2. Unfortunately, cheating is a common occurrence in relationships no matter how well you think you know someone. It’s always a good idea to mention your fears and see what they suggest. Instead of asking them point blank if your partner is cheating on you, try talking to them about the things they do that you find odd or suspicious.It could be that they are totally innocent and it’s you who might have insecurities that lead you to be jealous and untrusting. They can assist you in deciphering that and help you with these issues.
  3. If you’re on a mission to find your soulmate and get married, ask your psychic about the qualities and personality types that would be a good match for you and what places you would be most likely to meet your future partner.
  4. Ask questions that help you see your love life in a clearer light. For example, you can talk about things you fight about the most, or things that you wish you could change.A lot of times things aren’t as bad as they seem and you just need the advice of an outsider looking in who will not judge you or your partner.

Questions About Your Career

Considering that the typical person spends about one-third of their life at work, it makes sense that your career is a major part of your life. You want to make sure you’re doing the best job you possibly can and that you’re getting the most satisfaction out of it. Here are some ideas to ask your psychic in regards to your career.

  1. You can begin the conversation by telling them what you currently do for work and your feelings towards it. Love it? Hate it? Share this with them.
  2. Let them know how you feel about your coworkers and your superiors. If you have a difficult relationship with any of them, you can ask them for advice on handling the situation and improving the relationship.
  3. Explain to the psychic in depth how working there is either improving your life and gives you a sense of purpose, or is hurting your day-to-day life and is actually hurting your overall life satisfaction?
  4. Ask them for help on achieving a better work/life balance if it feels like work is taking up too much of your personal time at home. Are you always answering work calls or emails when you’re trying to enjoy some family/friend time?
  5. Do you find that work is the first thing on your mind in the mornings and the last thing on your mind before bed? Is it in a positive way, like you love your job so much you’re always thinking about it or is it in a stressful way where it causes anxiety?
  6. Are you wondering whether you should stay at your current job or switch to a different one? If so, this is a great question to ask a psychic! Ask them what they feel is the best career path for you and how you can go about achieving it.Psychics have the ability to see things others can’t see and can pick up on things.It could be that  you want to quit your current job because it’s your way of avoiding important or tough situations, or of running away from important personal issues.If that’s the case, the psychic will be able to see this deeper reason and can share their findings with you. They can teach you how to face these issues and grow from them instead of avoiding them.

Questions About Your DreamsDream meaning

Just like with work, we spend about one-third of our lives sleeping. During these sleep sessions, we often have wild and imaginative dreams that intrigue and confuse us. Speaking to a psychic about the dreams you have is a great way to learn more about yourself and your subconscious.

  1. Jot down anything you remember about your dreams as soon as you wake up and try to be as descriptive as possible. Write it all down even if it doesn’t make any sense at the time.
  2. Pay special attention to any particular actions and things spoken during the dream, as well as any symbols, words or people that were present.
  3. Tell the psychic how you felt during the dream if you can, and if not, explain how you felt afterwards when you woke up and thought about the dream you just experienced. Did you wake up scared and with your heart beating out of your chest? Or did you wake up happy and at peace?
  4. Share with the psychic what the meaning of the dream is to YOU and ask for their take on what it meant. Does the dream have anything in common with your current life or a past experience?

Questions About Any Past LivesPast lives

People are made of matter and matter is made of energy. Well, as you may or may not know, energy cannot be created or DESTROYED– it can only be changed and transferred. For this reason, it’s easy to see why so many people and cultures believe in reincarnation.

You may have heard stories of people recalling a past life they had, or of memories that they experienced so vividly but whose weren’t actually theirs. For a great interview with a professor of psychiatry and neurobehavioral sciences at the University of Virginia named Jim Tucker on the matter, click here– it’s a fascinating read!

Asking your psychic about any past lives you may have had can help answer a lot of questions about your current life.

  1. Tell the psychic about any experiences that keep repeating themselves in your life. These could be both positive and negative things. Do you keep seeing the same sign in your life that makes you feel happy? Is there a struggle that you keep battling with and can’t seem to move past? Mention these things to him or her.
  2. Romantic partners and friends can be linked to a previous life so let your psychic know if you feel an intense connection to someone. If something about them just draws them to you, it’s worth mentioning because there could be history between you from before.When someone was involved with you in your past life, it can be hard to part ways with them even if the relationship with them is less than pleasant in the current time and space.
  3. Be aware that anytime you talk about past lives with a psychic, intense feelings can be brought up during the reading. Whether you know it or not, you might have suffered from traumas in the past that you are still not fully over or healed from.
  4. Learning about your past life is a great time to start looking to the next chapter of your life and your future. Talk to the psychic about how to move forward with your life and honor the here and now despite what may have happened to you in the past.

Questions About Healing Yourself EmotionallyEmotional healing

Life puts us through a lot during the time we’re here. It’s not surprising that sometimes we’re left in emotional bits and pieces after particularly difficult experiences. In order to live your best life, it’s important that you heal your body, mind, and soul.

If you’ve undergone a traumatic event, or just something that you can’t stop thinking about, mention it to the psychic during an energy healing reading.

  1. Tell the psychic what events or experiences you need healing from and how they make you feel. Feel free to discuss any event or period in your life that caused you pain, even if it seems small or silly.
  2. Allow yourself to be vulnerable during this discussion. Just like with a Past Life reading, an Energy Healing reading can be very intense and difficult to face emotionally. However, facing your problems and wanting to heal are the first steps to reclaiming your courage and resilience.
  3. During a healing session, your psychic will help you get back your sense of self that may have been lost along the way. They can also teach you the best way to forgive those who harmed you and assist you in moving forward in your life with a new-found sense of freedom and with peace in your heart.

These topics are just a few of the ones you can discuss with your psychic, but honestly, the possibilities are endless. Talk to the psychic about everything and anything that’s on your mind without fear of judgement or rejection.

The only thing I would suggest against is asking very generalized yes or no questions. Questions such as: “Will I get pregnant soon?” “Will I quit my job?” “Will I get married?” might all be things you’re dying to know, but will be hard for a psychic to answer without having a deeper conversation with you.

Don’t “test” the psychic by hiding your feelings, hiding significant details of your life, or lying to them because you’ll only be cheating yourself.

When you invite the psychic into your life and share personal and intimate details about yourself with them, this allows them to look into your true self and your specific experiences.

It creates a deeper relationship with you and allows them to use their intuitive gifts to understand your situation better and give you the most accuracy during a reading.

There has to be trust between the two of you- that’s why it’s very important you don’t call up just any psychic that emails you, or that you see on a street sign. Only trust tested and verified psychics like the ones on my review page.

If you prefer, you can also just start talking and let the conversation flow naturally when speaking with the psychic. You don’t have to begin by asking them questions or giving them details upfront.

Start by just telling them how you are feeling in general, at that moment. Things that are on your mind, things that have been bugging you, or things that have been making you excited and happy.

A lot of times when the conversation is more relaxed and natural, the psychic can tap into their abilities easier and receive any cosmic messages they have for you faster.

Even if you don’t realize it at the time, you reveal a lot about your true needs and feelings when you’re not feeling forced to talk about a certain thing.

A genuine psychic can pick up on these subtle and subconscious messages that you need to talk about the most.

I truly hope that you give a psychic reading a try and that you find the answers you are looking for during your reading! Psychics are a wonderful tool for getting in touch with your true self and your deeper purpose.

They can help you on your path to clarity and happiness. They are just one part of that path though, it’s also important that you practice self-care, self-love and that you believe in yourself.

You are ultimately in charge of your life and you can use your psychic reading to show you the answers you have within yourself.

Think of them as the flashlight that’s lighting up a deep cave in front of you which would be almost impossible to navigate without its brightness!



Angela Moore founded Psychic Review Online in 2008 after being scammed out of her life savings by a psychic con artist. Since then she has devoted her time to rooting out the frauds and helping people find a real psychic reader.

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