If you’re searching for the perfect partner, you may be wondering, “are there any good men left?” Based on your previous experiences or what you see and hear, it may seem like you won’t find one.
However, let me assure you that there are plenty out there. It’s possible that your Prince Charming is hiding in plain sight, and you don’t know it. Perhaps you’ve never asked yourself, “what does it mean to me to be a good man?”
Recognize what Prince Charming looks like to you and learn how to meet him while avoiding flings with the wrong one.
What Does Prince Charming Look Like To You?
One of the biggest hurdles women face when looking for their soulmates is knowing what they want in a partner. Knowing what Prince Charming looks like for them specifically can be difficult. A man can be perfect for your friend but not necessarily for you, right?
Regardless of your dating history, whether you have a lot of experience in the dating field or have only had a few serious relationships, you must give yourself much-needed time to recognize what Mr. Right looks like FOR YOU. It’s also important to be patient with yourself while figuring that out.
We all have things that make us happy, and what happiness looks like to us varies from person to person. A random text or unexpected phone call sends some over the moon. Some love it when their partner takes time out of their busy day to take have lunch with you.
Others can think of nothing better than their partner making weekend plans to explore the city with them. When you truly look forward to spending your valuable time with him, it’s a good sign you’ve found relationship happiness.
However, just because your Prince Charming knows what it takes to make you happy doesn’t necessarily mean your relationship with him will always be perfect and smooth.
Your soulmate will be someone who always has your well-being in mind and constantly pushes you to be the best version of yourself. Unfortunately, this may sometimes lead to discomfort and periods of conflict because being the best version of yourself is not always the easiest thing to do.
Stop Wasting Your Time With Flings That You Know Aren’t Right For You
To find Mr. Right, you will have to stop spending your time with ‘Mr. Right Now.’ That’s one of the biggest obstacles standing in the way between you and your soulmate. You’ll know if he’s just Mr. Right Now because they seem to find you when you feel hopeless and vulnerable.
Even though you know they’re not the one, you give them your time because it keeps you from being alone. Unfortunately, spending your time up with them can cause you to miss your opportunity with the right one. How can you be sure he’s not Prince Charming and just a fling?
The wrong person is usually the type of man who only seems to contact you at night or when he’s bored. He usually doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family and never seems to have deep, serious conversations with you.
Perhaps he never brings up plans for the future or never includes you in his future and dodges away from serious questions that you ask him. Maybe he leaves you hanging on plans more than once or makes excuses on why he can’t spend time with you on days that you aren’t at your best or are having a bad day.
So How Do You Go About Finding Your Prince Charming?
Although it may sound counterintuitive, the best way to find your soulmate is to stop looking so hard. Love psychics and relationship experts agree that the most profound and meaningful connections happen when you aren’t specifically looking.
When people relax around each other without trying to force anything, their feelings for each other grow naturally and organically. You aren’t forcing this person to be the perfect one for you. But, what if he doesn’t check all the boxes on your list of what your Prince Charming has to be like?
Maybe he doesn’t look the way you envisioned him physically, or he doesn’t have the same passion for certain things. Perhaps he’s not as cultured as you’d like him to be, but he DOES provide the level of love, commitment, and support you’ve always wanted and dreamed of.
Be flexible with the checklist you’ve built in your mind. Doing so will make finding your soulmate much easier than you ever thought possible. The search for Prince Charming won’t necessarily be easy, but it will be worthwhile and deserves your time and patience.
A personal love tarot reading by a professional psychic helps give you better insight into what qualities to look for in him and can help you understand what Prince Charming looks like for you specifically.