If you are someone who is searching for the perfect partner, you may have asked yourself if there “are any good men left” because it may seem that way to you and/or your girlfriends. Is it possible though that your Prince Charming can be hiding in plain sight and you just don’t know it? Perhaps you have never asked yourself “what does it mean to me to be a good man?” Recognize what your Prince Charming really means to you and learn how to meet him, while making sure to avoid short term flings, just because they are available at the moment.
What Does Prince Charming Look Like To You?
One of the biggest hurdles women face when looking for their soulmate is knowing and defining what it is they even want in him or what that looks like for them in particular. A man can be perfect for your friend, but not necessarily perfect for you, right? Regardless of your dating history, whether you have a lot of experience in the dating field or have only had a few serious relationships, it’s important that you give yourself much needed time to recognize what Mr. Right looks like to you. It’s also important to be patient with yourself while you figure that out.
We all have our own things that make us happy and what happiness looks like to us varies from person to person. For some of us an unexpected text or random phone call sends us over the moon. Or perhaps we love it when the man we’re dating takes time out of his busy workday to take you out to a quick lunch just so he can see you. Or when plans to spend his weekend with you exploring the city. When you truly and genuinely look forward to spending your valuable time with him it’s a good sign that you have found relationship happiness.
However, the fact that your Prince Charming knows what it takes to make you happy does not necessarily mean that your relationship with him will always be perfect and smooth. Your soulmate is going to be someone who always has your well-being in mind and constantly pushes you to be the best YOU that you can possibly be, and this may sometimes lead to feelings of discomfort and periods of conflict because being the best version of yourself is not always the easiest thing to do.
Stop Wasting Your Time With Flings That You Know Aren’t Right For You
In order to find Mr. Right, you’re going to have to stop spending your time with Mr. ‘Right Now’ because that is one of the biggest obstacles in between you and him. You’ll know when he is Mr. Right Now because they seem to find you when are feeling hopeless and vulnerable. Even though you know they are not what you are looking for long term, you spend your time with them anyways because it keeps you from being alone. Unfortunately, tying your time up with them can cause you to miss your opportunity with the right one.
How can you be sure that he’s Prince Charming versus just another frog? The wrong person for you is usually the type of man who only seems to contact you at night, or when he is bored and finds himself with nothing better to do. He usually does not introduce you to his friends or family and never seems to have deep, serious conversations with you. Perhaps he never brings up plans for the future or never talks about you in his future and dodges away from serious questions that you ask him. Maybe he leaves you hanging on plans more than once or makes excuses on why he can’t spend time with you on days that you aren’t at your best or are having a bad day.
So How Do You Go About Finding Your Prince Charming?
This may sound counter intuitive but the best way to find your soulmate is to stop looking so hard for him. Love psychics and relationship experts both agree that the deepest, most meaningful connections and bonds happen when you aren’t specifically looking to make a special connection. When people spend time with each other in a relaxed way without trying to force anything, their feelings for each other grow and blossom naturally and organically.
This happens because you are not necessarily thinking that this person is the perfect one for you. Perhaps he doesn’t check all the boxes on your list of what your Prince Charming has to be like. Maybe he doesn’t look the way you envisioned him physically, or he doesn’t have the same passion for certain things that you do. Perhaps he’s not as cultured as you’d like him to be, but he DOES provide the level of love, commitment, and support that you have always wanted and dreamed of. If you are willing to be flexible with the checklist that you have built in your mind, you will see that finding your soulmate is much easier than you ever thought possible.
The search for Prince Charming won’t necessarily be an easy one, but it will most definitely be a worthwhile one that deserves your time and patience. A personal love tarot reading by a professional psychic is useful in giving you better insight into what types of qualities to look for in him and can help you understand what Prince Charming looks like for you specifically.