People are always looking for new information about themselves. We want an idea of what the future holds for us. We want to know how to be happier, better prepared and how to love with all our heart. All around the world, people have discovered the benefits of speaking with a psychic reader. I personally have experienced firsthand how helpful a reading with an authentic psychic advisor is.
Although psychics can’t tell us the exact details of our future, they CAN give us valuable guidance and advice for having the best future possible. They help us determine what that looks like for each and every one of us personally then tell us the steps necessary to get there.
I am so glad that I was already speaking to psychics online because I would be so upset if I wasn’t able to get a reading during these crazy times. I never had another face-to-face psychic reading after the terrible experience I had years ago.
I’ve preferred online psychics ever since because it eliminates the opportunity for fraudulent psychics to use smoke and mirrors to trick people. It’s easy for a con artist to manipulate a person when they’re in the same room with them.
It also eliminates the pressure I might feel being face to face with a stranger. I’m more tense and on edge when I’m in somebody else’s space compared to my own turf. Talented psychics pick up on this anxious and uneasy vibe and it affects the reading.
That being said, there are also certain things you need to keep in mind when getting a live psychic reading online. The four tips below ensure that you get the most benefits from your reading.
Be In The Right Frame Of Mind
One of the most important things to keep in mind during your online psychic reading is to keep a relaxed and open mind. Some people go into the reading with an air of doubt and skepticism which closes them off from their true self.
If you start the reading waiting for them to “mess up” or give you wrong information you’re only cheating yourself. You’re putting yourself in a negative frame of mind that psychics can feed off of. They won’t be able to read you as the person that you truly are.
If you’ve decided to get a psychic reading then you should go all in with the best mood and mindset possible. If you aren’t in a relaxed state then you probably shouldn’t get a reading at that time because you’ll more than likely be guarded and defensive.
You should also know that the point of a psychic reading is to teach you things you don’t already know about or hadn’t thought of. This is why it’s crucial that you keep an open mind. You need to be in the right place mentally so that you can be receptive to this information.
Take a nice relaxing bath or have a calming meditation session right before chatting with a psychic. This helps you make the transition between “hectic day” to psychic “me time.” Sometimes psychics tell you things during a reading that don’t make sense to you or sound right in that moment. Instead of dismissing this information or doubting the psychic, jot it down in a notepad so you can reference it later.
A lot of times, the things they tell us start to make sense after we experience a certain event or some time has passed. Take detailed notes during the reading so that every now and then you can go back and read the things you were told. Some of the best psychic networks, like Psychic Source for example, can even give you a transcript of your conversation.
This allows you to go back and reread any little details that may have seemed insignificant at that time. It’s nice to have this information on hand so you can utilize it when the time comes and get the most out of your reading.
Learn About The Different Psychic Abilities
Before speaking with a psychic, it’s a good idea to learn as much as you can about them.“Psychic” is a an umbrella term and it covers a lot of different abilities. Some psychics can get a really good feel for the future and they’re known as clairvoyants.
Others, called empaths, connect with your emotions on such an intense level and can feel your feelings as if they were their own. Mediums are psychics that can connect with the spirits of the deceased. They are able to relay messages back and forth between the living and the dead.
Other psychics specialize in reading you your Tarot cards. Being familiar with the different abilities helps you decide what you’re looking for. Once you have an idea of who you think can help you the best, read the bios of the available psychics.
Reputable psychic networks list all their available psychics and what they specialize in. You can also read customer reviews for the psychics to see if anyone mentions having been helped with the same issue you have. You should acknowledge their unique abilities but also keep in mind that they’re still human and not a God.
Think of them as more of a guide/teacher/leader. They can’t know everything in the world so don’t expect that from them. Don’t write them off as fake or a fraud just because there was something they weren’t able to answer for you.
Allow Your Energy To Flow Freely
Psychics use your energy during an online reading to draw psychic information from you and to connect with you. We all vibrate on our own unique wavelengths and authentic psychics are able to match these wavelengths. They can alter their vibrational frequency to match yours and this allows them to merge their being with yours.
When that happens, they can uncover valuable information about you that even you didn’t know about yourself. They’re able to read your energy and interpret what you’re feeling and going through. You may have heard the term “chakras” before; chakras are energy centers that run up and down your body.
Each chakra has its own vibrational frequency and color that governs your body and mind. Every living thing was created by and made up of energy. Your chakras need to be properly balanced so that you can be psychologically, emotionally, physically, and spiritually healthy.
Some psychics can read your chakras and let you know of which ones are off and how to rebalance them. This is why it is so important that you stay cool, calm, and collected during a reading. If you go into the reading feeling irritated, annoyed or angry then you are just closing yourself off from the psychic.
They won’t be able to read your energy to the best of their ability because they’ll be too busy trying to get past the walls that you’ve put up. Breaking down your walls is physically and emotionally draining for them and isn’t something they should be made to do.
You should also try to shake off any feelings of nervousness, anxiety, or fear, especially since you’re in the comfort of your own home. Take some deep breaths and ground yourself before picking up your phone or computer. Be open-minded so that the psychic can connect with you and see deep into your spirit and life force to give you the most personalized information.
Be Open And Honest
Along with being open-minded, you also need to be willing to answer questions and talk about personal things. No matter how embarrassing something might be to admit or talk about, you need to be honest with the psychic. Psychics are good at picking up memories and experiences and not all of them will be easy to talk about. These could be issues that you’ve been trying for years to bury deep inside.
You should know that no matter how hard you try to hide them away, your body keeps track of these issues and feels the effect when they’re unresolved. Being open about these things and talking about them freely allows the psychic to help you work through them.
They can break things down for you and help you see them in a new light. During a psychic reading is not the time to be shy, reserved or guarded. This is your chance to speak about the most personal things on your mind without being judged.
Psychics see, feel and hear so much every day and they know they’re not the ones to decide what’s right or wrong. They take things as they are and find solutions for moving forward instead of dwelling in the past. No matter how gifted a psychic is, it’s impossible for them to literally know everything so don’t be upset if they need additional information from you.
This helps them connect and relate to you and lets them dig deep into your issues. Communicating freely and being transparent with them guarantees the best reading possible. If you follow the advice above, you are going to get valuable guidance and advice from your reading.
Going into the reading with a specific focus and intention in mind also makes the session more beneficial. Remember to take notes so that you’re more informed when the information you were given manifests itself later further down the road.
More importantly, make sure that you go through a reputable online psychic network for your readings. You don’t want to just go with the first or the cheapest psychic you find. Psychic readings are a very personal matter and you shouldn’t trust just anyone. A fake psychic is going to do you more harm than good by taking your money and giving you inaccurate or generic information.
Check out my reviews page for a list of the psychic networks I’ve thoroughly researched and recommend! And whatever you do, be sure to avoid the psychics in my “Psychic Scams And How To Avoid Them” section at all costs.