Sadly, life has a way of bringing you down at times. When this happens, you need someone honest to talk to. Should you call a friend? A psychologist? A support group? There are plenty of options but not all are created equal. Some are better than others depending on what you’re going through.
Friends are great to talk to when you need lighthearted advice or just want to let them know what you’re up to. However, I don’t recommend making them your main source for advice. Some issues are just too serious and if you don’t know each other on a deeply personal level you shouldn’t burden their life with your problems.
Sure they care about you and want to know you but you don’t want to constantly unload on them do you? You want your friends to enjoy being around you and chatting with you for as long as you know each other. They can get mentally and physically exhausted if you keep going to them with huge issues.
They might start viewing you as the friend who always leaves them feeling drained. The one who always seems to bring them down. Seeking them for advice sometimes is fine, but I wouldn’t turn to them every single time.
A psychologist can help if you have physical mental health issues. Sometimes the chemicals in the brain don’t do what they’re supposed to and this can lead to psychological distress. There is nothing wrong with seeking a professional for medication that can balance those chemical and neural pathways.
Depression isn’t something you have to live with. There are a variety of natural and medical treatments that can help. Sometimes you just have a problem and it doesn’t mean you’re depressed so psychologists won’t be much help there.
Counselors are great listeners and are a good option for getting things off your chest. Sometimes you need actual help though and just talking can’t answer your questions. Support groups can be an amazing resource- if you’re lucky enough to have one near you.
Not every city has them so they aren’t always an option. If you do have one near you, checking it out can be a good idea. There you’ll find like-minded individuals experiencing some of the same things you are. Of course, the downside is that you can’t be the socially shy type or have social anxiety.
You also have to be on their schedule and can’t talk to someone when it’s the most convenient for you and from the comfort of your own home. Don’t forget to consider the time it takes driving back and forth as well. If you’ve reached the end of your rope and just want to know WHY things are going the way they are, you’re not alone!
Sometimes The Problem Isn’t Medical, It’s Spiritual
Sometimes nothing makes sense and everything seems to be falling apart. These are the times when you need the most intimate and private help. Maybe you’ve tried everything else and don’t know who else to turn to. To me, spiritual advisors, psychics, and mediums are great at filling this role. They allow you to be your vulnerable self without judging or viewing you negatively for the choices you’ve made.
They know life is hard and they use their unique gifts to help you get through the curves life throws at you. That’s the good news. The bad news is that a lot of people who call themselves psychic aren’t psychic at all. They’re con artists who lie, cheat and steal their way through life.
They exploit people who are in their most vulnerable and desperate state. They know the people reaching out to them are hurting and need help. They end up robbing them blind instead of helping them. I know how it feels to be taken advantage of by someone who claims to be a psychic because it happened to me.
I’ve learned a lot since then though and I know better than to write them all off as fakes. I’ve experienced the worst of the worst to the best of the best since I started consulting them. I learned what to look for, how to decide if someone is trustworthy, the warning signs that they’re duping me, and all the tricks in between.
Ever since I discovered the most trustworthy online psychic, I haven’t felt the need to keep looking. I know I can trust these and they’ve helped me more than I can explain. They’ve gotten me through so many different situations and problems. Some seemed so hopeless that I didn’t think anyone could help me with them. I was wrong every time though.
With the help of some very gifted psychics I’ve been able to overcome huge obstacles in my life. I always feel like I come out the other end of the situation better than before. They taught me how to view my problems through a different perspective and presented me with so many different options and possibilities I never even knew existed.
The best part is that they never told me what to do and I just blindly did them. They walked me through everything and led me to make my own decisions and find the solutions that worked best for me personally. I don’t need to speak to them as much as I used to anymore because of the insight they’ve given me throughout the years.
When I do need to consult one every now and then though I only speak to those on my psychic reviews page. Here is what I have learned about genuine psychics versus fake ones:
Genuine Psychics Don’t Throw Themselves At You
Honest, talented psychics who are truly blessed with unique abilities don’t need to stand outside begging people to come in and see them. They don’t need to flag people down and hawk their services. Word gets around when someone has special gifts and people flock to see them.
There might be cases where legitimate psychics do have to find business on the streets because not everyone has a phone or internet but the majority don’t do this. I also don’t like in-person psychics because they’re experts at reading body language. I guess you could say they ARE gifted at that.
They can tell by your facial expressions and body movements if you’re scared, sad, nervous, happy, etc. They then use those emotions you’re feeling against you. They can also toss around words and ideas to see which ones you react to and then focus on those.
For example, if they say the word “baby” they might see that you’re face lights up and now they know you’re either a mother or would like to be one. If they say “father” and your eyes tear up, they know you either lost yours or they are no longer around.
They also trick people by beginning their sessions with questions. The point isn’t for psychics to ask you questions, it’s the other way around. The more questions they ask you, the more information they get. This can be used to trick you into thinking they know all these things about you.
If they don’t start sessions with questions then they tend to start them with vague phrases that force you to direct the conversation. An example of this would be them saying “I sense a deep sadness within you.” This forces you to respond and proceed to give them lots of information. This is ammo for them because they’ll use this info against you in a heartbeat.
They can get a lot of information from you by asking some seemingly vague questions. This is how they make their money, by asking you questions and then drawing conclusions from them. It’s hard to see these things at the time if you’re in a vulnerable state.
At that point you might be so desperate for help and answers that you’ll be more trusting. You want so bad for the the “psychic” to be honest that you might convince yourself they are. I definitely learned my lesson about in-person psychic readings.
True talent lies in the psychic being able to use their intuition and extrasensory perception no matter how far away you are. They don’t need to rely on these old sleight-of-hand tricks to get money. They have adult conversations with their clients either through phone calls, instant messaging or video messaging. Their gifts know no limits and are able to travel beyond space and time.
Authentic Psychics Have Good Referrals And Ratings
You might think you’re weird or naïve for wanting to speak to a psychic but you shouldn’t feel that way. I used to think that too, until I realized it’s not true. More people than you think rely on a psychic’s wisdom and guidance. I know it might be a little embarrassing to ask your friends and family if they have one they recommend but it shouldn’t be.
You’d be surprised how many people you know have consulted a psychic with at least once in their life. As I mentioned before, authentic psychics don’t need to find you. People find them by word of mouth, referrals, and recommendations.
People are usually more than willing to tell you all about their experience or favorite psychic once you open that door with them. They know these gifts are a true blessing and want as many people as possible to be helped by them. I have personally referred countless friends and family members to my favorite psychic networks.
They always come back and thank me after because they got a lot out of it. There is no experience quite like a psychic reading and I love pointing them in the right direction. I want their first experience to be a great one so they know how life changing it can be.
I get it though, even in this day and age, it can still feel weird to ask friends and family about this. Psychics can be a sensitive subject for some and there are a lot of contradicting opinions. People who’ve never benefited from a psychic reading can be skeptical. They may think badly of you for believing in them.
No worries though, not everyone understands it. Some people can’t believe something they can’t physically see with their own eyes. If science can’t explain it plainly to them, they cannot accept it as a possibility. There’s nothing wrong with that. You can believe in witches, ghosts, spirits, different dimensions, vibrations, energies while others don’t.
If that’s the case then you may not have anyone to ask for a referral. The internet can be your best friend in this situation. There are so many reviews online for various psychic services, you’re bound to find a good one.
Unfortunately, the internet can also be a double-edged sword. It’s great for finding talented psychics but it can also be great at leading you to psychic scams. I always suggest doing your own homework and research on any psychic before contacting them. I wrote an article to help people prepare for a psychic reading that you may find helpful here.
Differences Between Fake Psychics And Real Ones
As I said, fake psychics are a dime a dozen and you need to know how to avoid them. I’ve written extensively about well-known online psychic scams. I researched exposed fake email psychics such as Esmeralda Psychic, Extraordinary Chris, William Guardian Angel, Magellan, Celeste and many more. I urge you to read up on them here and stay as far away as possible from them.
Genuine psychics don’t get you to lead the conversation, they guide the session themselves. They may need a little information from you initially but you shouldn’t be the one doing most of the talking. Trustworthy psychics also don’t make outlandish claims that they can’t support.
If anytime during a conversation a “psychic” tells you that you’re going to win the lottery soon, or give you exact dates of important life events then you need to be suspicious. True psychics don’t claim to know the future exactly as it will happen.
They give you the tools and answers needed to create your own future the way you want it to be. We all have free will so nobody can tell us what to do or what will happen. They can only make suggestions and recommendations.
You should also stay far away from a “psychic” who tells you that there’s a curse or spell placed on you. These things aren’t real and only fake psychics use these types of dirty scare tactics. It’s unethical and downright low. They’ll try to convince you that something bad will happen to you soon and that they can stop it if you give them more money.
This isn’t to say that genuine psychics will never give you bad news though. They are going to be honest and upfront with you, and sometimes that means giving you less-than-pleasant information. They won’t sugarcoat or omit things just because they’re hard to hear.
They want to help you get your life back on track, not make you think everything is perfectly fine when it isn’t. Don’t be afraid to ask them to explain themselves if you’re ever confused about something they said. Ask them to go into detail if you need more information about something they mentioned.
I love consulting psychics online because I AM in control of when and how to end the session. When you visit one in-person, they always find a way to keep you there longer than necessary. They draw you in by only giving you bits and pieces at a time.
With online psychics, you can focus on one issue at a time and end the session when you choose. Take the time afterwards to let everything they said really sink in. Sometimes things you were told don’t make sense until you’ve had a chance to think deeper about them. You don’t need to do that on the spot because that will only extend the reading.
I always recommend taking notes or asking for a transcript of the reading so that you can refer to it at a later date. I could talk about psychics all day but I hope this at least helps you a little if you’re looking for a psychic reading. Even if you want to but are skeptical, talk to one if you’re going through something difficult in your life…
Worst case you hate it and you get your money back, best case you love it and get clarity and answers to your most pressing issues. I also urge you not to judge all psychics off of one bad reading. Psychics are still people like you and I who have both good and bad days. Sometimes they get emotionally drained and may not be as receptive as they can be.
This is especially true for empaths. Ideally they should make themselves unavailable after a particularly rough session but sometimes they may not even know they need a break. Try multiples until you find one you really click with.
A genuine psychic reading won’t leave you feeling like you wasted your money or that you’re worse off than before the reading. If you’ve ever had a psychic reading, I’d love to hear your story or experience! Leave me a comment below.