There are a lot of different reasons why people get psychic readings. I spoke to a psychic named Misty, who told me the main topics she’s asked about are love and cheating. “Can I trust my partner?” is the most common question Misty gets. She has years of experience as a spiritual advisor, psychic medium, and love psychic. She’s seen that trust issues from past relationships almost always cloud your judgment in future relationships.
Asking friends for advice or their point of view doesn’t usually help because you’ve already made up your mind. The reason for this is overthinking and jumping to conclusions too quickly. You jump to these conclusions because of what’s happened to you before. Sadly, these actions can seriously hurt a relationship. “Trust depends more on feeling versus thinking. If you’ve been hurt by a partner in the past, these memories can haunt your future relationships,” says Misty.
Misty also tells me you must look inside yourself first and foremost whenever you have a persistent gut feeling that won’t leave you, no matter how much you try to push it away. She believes you must make peace with yourself and your past before you can even begin to receive any clear messages the universe is trying to give you. Crystal healing, journaling, praying, and spiritual meditation are all great ways to connect with your inner self.
These practices allow you to work out any issues affecting you and cloud your judgment. Psychics can also help you identify problems and correct them. Once you’ve worked on yourself and let go of painful baggage from the past, you can trust your intuition. Being able to trust your intuition helps you in your relationship. Misty shares with us seven ways to know if you can trust your partner:
Several psychics I’ve spoken to, including Misty, agree that first impressions are enormously telling signs of the relationship. “So many people I’ve talked to have admitted to me that when they look back on the first time they met their partner, they had a strange feeling or a knot in their stomach that they decided just to ignore and shake off,” Misty says.
She also tells me that the warning comes to them as a tiny little voice for some people. It can say things like “don’t go through with this,” “cut the date early,” or “they’re not the right one.” For others, the warning comes to them physically, washing over their body and tending to get mistaken for physical attraction.
Thinking, “I can change them” or “I can handle them,” when beginning a new relationship are bad signs. Having these kinds of thoughts usually means that the relationship will test the limits of your trust all too often. “It’s hard to explain how you’ll feel, but when the relationship is right for you, you’ll just know it in your mind and body,” says Misty.
If things feel perfect with them and you never doubt them, you can likely trust them. If you ever begin feeling like something isn’t right, you must listen to yourself because you could be right. An honest, non-cheating partner shouldn’t give you reasons to worry about the relationship.
They should never make you worried about the future of your relationship, and you should feel at ease with how everything between you two is going. “In all my years as a psychic medium and love psychic, it’s very rare for a person to feel 100% secure with their partner but then find out they were being cheated on the whole time.
Your partner will usually give you reasons to question them once they start cheating,” says Misty. Your instinct knows when it’s found someone you can feel safe and secure with. Therefore, you should be good to go if your partner never makes you think otherwise. Learn to listen to yourself more often.
Just like your instinct knows when something is good for you, so does your body. Despite what it might sound like, this has more to do with comfort and less to do with sex. Does your body feel completely at ease and comfortable near your partner? According to Misty, relaxing next to them entirely is a good sign.
She says you can use your psychic GPS we all have inside of us to know whether you can truly trust your partner or not. “Pay attention to any little feeling you get in your body, such as a stomach cramp or muscle twitches. Don’t brush these hints off because this is your intuition relaying messages to you through your body,” Misty tells me.
She also tells me that one of the most intuitive and natural ways to decide whether or not you can trust your partner is by thinking back to how the relationship began. Did you have doubts or suspicions about how much you could trust your partner from the start of the relationship but repressed them? Any repressed red flags can and probably WILL resurface later in the relationship.
Pay attention if your partner does or says something that triggers these red flags down the road. “So many times, people realize that they never could trust their partner from the very beginning, but they ignored the red flags because they wanted the relationship to work out more than anything,” says Misty.
Misty believes listening less to your head and more to your gut is essential when deciding whether you can trust your partner. If you “know” deep down they are completely honest with you, it’s safe to say they probably are. However, if they’ve lied to you several times during your relationship, this could be a problem, and in your heart, you probably know they aren’t the one for you.
If they want to become the one for you despite the past, they need to admit their past behavior was wrong and do everything they can to change their ways. “If your partner can’t own their behavior and make an effort to change, then you should not stay in a relationship with them,” Misty tells me. A person who truly loves you will be able to see that they’ve wronged you and will want to change their ways because they don’t want to lose you.
In Misty’s experience, you can feel safe knowing your partner has nothing to hide if they’re consistent with you. For example, if your partner always calls you when they say they will, never misses date night, always greets you the same way every day, even if they’ve had a bad day at work, etc.
These are all good indicators that they are consistent and care about your relationship.
“If your partner has always been there for you, but their behavior changes suddenly and they stop putting much effort into the relationship, then you need to take a step back and try to see if there’s something else going on,” she says. But acting different doesn’t mean they’re up to no good.
They may be dealing with extra work, be under family stress, or be upset about something completely unrelated to you. Don’t assume things and become confrontational without knowing all the facts, as this will only push them away from you. Once you’ve thought about other reasons for their behavior but still feel like something’s wrong, you can ask them calmly.
If your partner hasn’t shut you out of their life or made it clear they’re no longer interested in you, they’ll likely be happy to explain things. Life is stressful, and people handle stress differently, so don’t automatically assume they’re cheating on you.
Communicating freely and honestly in a relationship is one of the most vital factors in building and keeping long-term relationships. You have nothing to worry about if you have open communication lines and aren’t afraid to share your feelings.
Once your partner quits sharing their thoughts and feelings with you, stops talking to you about their daily events, or doesn’t seem to want to communicate with you anymore, this could be a big red flag that something bigger is going on. If your partner has nothing to hide, there’s no reason for their abrupt silence and secrets.
If they truly value your relationship and appreciate you in their life, they’ll feel safe telling you anything and everything. They’ll tell you things even if they know it’s something you might not want to hear. Remember, it’s normal for your partner to do things you don’t like now and then. The best advice Misty gave me is to take the time to listen to yourself.
Listen to your heart, your body, and your intuition. If you genuinely feel that your partner is trustworthy deep down in your gut, they usually are. At that point, it’s a good idea to stop questioning their loyalty to you. Difficulty getting in touch with yourself and your intuition could indicate your energy is blocked.
Blocked energy and chakras in the body make it nearly impossible to listen to your instinct. Getting a reading from a reputable online psychic can help you figure out what you’re holding onto deep down inside. It can help you bring things to light, and you can resolve these issues. Resolving and healing them remove them from your spiritual flow and energy.