Cheating is never fun to think about or have to experience, and it’s so painful to think about the person we love being interested in someone else.
Even though people cheat on each other for several reasons, it’s never ok to do in a relationship. Often, once a person has cheated in a relationship, it’s hard to get back to where they once were.
In some cases however, confronting a cheating partner can be a wake-up call that something is wrong with the partnership.
This wake-up call can lead the couple to discuss and re-evaluate the relationship. It can help the couple decide if there are problems they want to fix and re-commit to each other. This process can make for a more solid relationship.
So, in these cases, cheating isn’t automatically a death sentence for the couple. But in other cases, cheating is the result of an already failing relationship.
Things were probably already unsatisfying and going downhill, so cheating seemed the easiest way out. Cheating is easier than having an honest talk about wanting to end the relationship.
Even a situation like this has a silver lining, though. If a relationship was causing someone to feel neglected, unwanted, insecure, nervous, etc., and the cheating caused a breakup, then at least that frees them from a toxic relationship.
Separating from someone who wasn’t right for them allows them to find their soulmate.
Can Psychics Help If There’s Cheating Involved?
Many of my readers have asked me if consulting a psychic is a good idea when they think their partner is cheating on them. I wanted to take some time to give my opinion and address the issue, hoping it could help someone.
My opinion is that getting a love reading by a professional psychic is a good idea. I think it’s not only good for those who have suspicions of being cheated on but also for general insight into the health and energy of a relationship now and then.
I also wanted to tell you the three most common reasons people cheat, some clues and red flags on whether you’re being cheated on, how a psychic can help you in this situation, and the personal story of one of my readers.
People cheat for several reasons, but these are the three most common:
1- Poor Communication
Communication, or the absence of communication, is usually to blame when a relationship fails. Resentment, repressed anger, hurt feelings, or the need to seek out an outsider for acceptance and to feel desired can all be linked directly to not having open lines of communication.
People hold their anger and concerns in, they don’t express their needs, they don’t share their feelings when their partner says or does something hurtful, and instead of speaking to a professional therapist or psychic to save the relationship, things go downhill fast.
In some cases, one partner voices their concerns or asks for relationship counseling, but the other doesn’t want to listen.
Either way, a lack of communication is a big problem. It’s easier for some to seek out a different person than to work harder in the relationship.
2- Fear Of Emotional Intimacy
Things that happen in our childhood and formative years take an enormous toll on us as adults. Unfortunately, some people grow up in households where their parents lie to and criticize each other instead of building each other up.
They keep feelings to themselves, are addicted to drugs or alcohol, or are just downright abusive and unloving. Doing this sends the wrong message to the child.
They might associate love and intimacy with pain and abandonment as adults. They may never know what it feels like to be loved or learn how to be emotional.
These fears are subconscious without the person realizing they feel this way, and they cause people to sabotage the relationship.
The person doesn’t know why they feel the way they feel, so they do things to try to get some space or distance from their partner, and cheating is one of those ways.
Sometimes they get caught cheating, and the relationship is over, just as they hoped it would be. Other times, they get away with it for long periods. This strategy allows them to have a safe “exit plan” where they always keep one foot out the door, ready to bolt at any moment.
They never fully commit or invest in relationships. They might start just fine when a connection is new and fun, but once things get more emotional and intense, they might feel the need to distance themselves and believe they aren’t the relationship type.
Healthy relationships require emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy requires open and raw vulnerability. Cheating and being emotionally absent allow them to avoid being emotional and vulnerable.
Many complicated things happen in life that we must confront at one point or another. Things like getting fired, losing a loved one, facing a debilitating accident or sickness, etc.
Some people can’t handle these situations as well as others, so they look for distractions. Cheating is a way to divert, escape, and distract themselves from the brutal reality of what they’re going through. It’s like a vacation, where they can leave their problems, even for a short period.
Of course, this is a horrible way to deal with things since avoiding problems worsens them and causes more harm.
Clues That Your Boyfriend Or Husband Is Cheating On You:
Sometimes it’s hard to know if you’re being cheated on or not, but you have your suspicions. Some things that prompt these feelings of doubt include, but are not limited to:
- Suddenly getting texts or calls at night, and they jump to answer them before you can hand them their phone and possibly see the screen.
- Leaving the room when they answer a phone call.
- Being home less and less and comes up with many reasons why they must leave, but never inviting you to go with them.
- Canceling your weekend plans together and never seeming to have time for you anymore.
- Seeming more distracted and paying more attention to their phone than you during dinner or date nights.
- Putting more effort into their appearance and outfits, maybe even using perfumes or cologne after a long time of not wearing them.
These are some more obvious red flags, but sometimes the clues can be more subtle and harder to catch. Maybe they seem a little colder towards you, less affectionate, or start being rude to you.
You might tell yourself they’re just stressed and overreacting, or you’re being paranoid or having trust issues.
Of course, it could be one of these things, and they’re not cheating; that’s why talking about it with someone who can help you find out is a good idea.
How A Psychic Can Help You:
Psychics are a great resource to turn to if you suspect someone is cheating on you or if you’ve already confirmed it and are trying to decide if you should try and save the relationship. They have years of combined experience in this field and are immensely insightful in love.
They have counseled and guided different people in various stages- from brand-new relationships to long-term marriages and everything in between.
Cheating can happen to anyone. No one is immune to it, so don’t get down on yourself if it’s happening to you. Talk to a psychic and learn how to leave the relationship or stay and work it out with your partner.
Psychics can use their gifts and the Tarot to uncover hidden and buried things about your relationship. It’s incredible how much emerges when it’s looked into.
They can see if there’s someone else, and if so, they can identify the reason for the cheating. Psychics can also advise you on what to do about the situation and give you insight into the relationship’s future.
We all know how complicated relationships can be. But the truth is, they can also be one of the best things to ever happen to us. Knowing the truth about your relationship can be the secret to making it successful.
Cheating Doesn’t Have To Mean The Relationship Must End
As I mentioned earlier, the presence of cheating in a relationship isn’t always a death sentence. Most relationships can be saved if a couple truly loves each other, wants to be together, and can discover the reason for the cheating.
The one who got cheated on has to fully understand the cause of the cheating and decide if they want to fix it. Once that individual has decided they want to work it out, they mustn’t dwell on the affair.
If they decide they want to work past it, it’s imperative to leave it in the past. They mustn’t throw it in their partner’s face whenever they get mad at them.
If someone can’t stop bringing the affair up, they might as well end the relationship. People should only try to work it out if they sincerely understand the reason for cheating and genuinely forgive them for it deep in their hearts.
Steve and Diane’s Story
After referring her to an online psychic network with an excellent track record and spectacular reviews, one of my readers wanted to follow up with her experience and thank me for my referral.
This is her story, and I wanted to share it because it’s such a great one. I changed the names of all parties involved for privacy reasons.
Diane told me that her husband, Steve, had started acting strange. Since I’m not a psychic, I referred her to the best psychic network I’ve ever used. She chose a psychic from the website and spoke to them.
She told the psychic how she and Steve had been married for 17 years, raised children, and ran a successful business together.
But recently, Steve wasn’t acting like his usual self. His behavior had changed, and since she knew him so well, she had concerns that he was cheating.
She noticed that he started going out with his buddies more and more, pretty much every single weekend. He would come home later and later every day. He also stopped paying his part of the bills on time, and she would receive late notices.
Steve had always prioritized paying the bills on time, so this was very odd for him. After receiving another late notice, she finally asked Steve why he hadn’t been paying their bills on time, and he got angry at her.
He started yelling at her and exploded over it, which he had never done before. His being moody, distracted, and never home were all red flags to her, but she wanted to talk to a psychic before she jumped to any conclusions.
How Did Her Reading Go?
She told me that during her reading, the psychic used her intuition and the Tarot and saw images of another woman. She drew the Queen of Swords at the center of the spread with many pentacles surrounding her.
This image told the psychic that it was one of their employees at the business. The psychic told Diane that she wasn’t picking up a love match but rather an affair that he turned to as a distraction to other problems.
She got a vision of a woman and described her to Diane, and Diane confirmed that a newly hired employee matched this description. The psychic kept throwing the cards and saw an addiction problem involving money and debt.
She asked Diane if she knew about Steve having a gambling problem, and Diane broke down, admitting that he had fought with this addiction in the past but that it hadn’t been an issue for several years.
The psychic pieced everything together and realized Steve had fallen off the wagon and was involved in gambling again. He gambled too much of their money, which was now affecting their credit and business.
He’d gotten himself back into debt and was embarrassed. Steve didn’t feel like he could talk to Diane about it, so he turned to the recently-divorced employee to distract himself and escape the stress of the situation he had created.
The psychic felt that enough time had passed since this had all started. She believed the timing was right for Diane to talk to and address this with Steve.
The psychic told her that she saw them still together down the line and that she felt they could work it out.
Sitting Down With Her Cheating Husband
It wasn’t easy for Diane to get the courage to confront her husband about this, but after a lot of soul-searching and spiritual meditation, she was finally ready.
She sat Steve down and asked him if there was anything he wanted to get off his chest. Steve broke down at this point and admitted everything to her. He realized he had a problem and that he couldn’t fix his addiction on his own.
He asked Diane to forgive him and plead for her help fighting this addiction. With everything out on the table, they both decided they loved each other enough to overcome this obstacle and made a plan to fix it.
When it was all said and done, they both worked very hard together and ended up happier than ever. Teamwork and compassion went a long way, and they each learned much about each other during the process.
Diane convinced Steve to get professional help with his addiction, something he’d refused to do. He learned how to break free of the addiction and avoid relapsing.
My readers’ experience made me so happy, and I’m glad things had a happy ending for them. However, it’s important to note how much hard work they put into their marriage.
I was ecstatic that the psychic could uncover hidden elements, confirm Diane’s doubts, and share her visions of their future, which prompted them to work together instead of divorcing. Consult one of these reliable psychic networks today if you’re unsure about your partner’s fidelity!